Attachment theories focus on the deep emotional bond that connects one individual to another across time and space.
The Thrive Approach uses uses evidence from attachment theory research to highlight the importance of building trusting relationships between adults and children that can evolve as the child develops in a way that supports the child’s optimal social and emotional development.
Attachment theory helps to explain the relationship between a child and their primary caregiver(s).
The nature of this relationship directly influences how the child develops throughout the course of their lifetime, both physically and mentally. As such, this relationship will affect the child’s capacity to make friends, to explore the world around them and to engage with learning.
Thrive uses attachment theory to help us understand a child’s behaviour and what this tells us about their social and emotional development. By understanding what a child’s behaviour is communicating about their unmet social and emotional needs, those working with the child are then in a position to make a positive difference to their life. However, if adults don’t recognise what is behind a child’s behaviour, they will find it difficult to meet the child’s needs. The result for the child can be social disengagement, underachievement in education, exclusion and potential issues in adult life.
The Thrive Approach draws on attachment theory to explore how healthy attachment relationships can be formed and how these can be used to achieve better outcomes for children and young people. Research tells us that our brains prioritise attachment security over exploration, suggesting that a safe relationship is necessary before a child or young person will be ready to engage with learning.
The Thrive Approach helps adults to develop empathy and compassion for those in their care, including through understanding the potential origins of their behaviour. As an attachment-aware approach, Thrive shows how behaviour can be positively improved, while giving children a sense of security and enabling them to build emotional resilience. Ultimately, this can lead to children and young people leading fuller, healthier lives and developing the capacity to thrive.
- Attachment theory helps us understand the importance of the relationship between the child or young person and the adult.
- The Thrive Approach helps adults build safe and supportive relationships so that children and young people are open to learning.
- Thrive uses attachment theory to understand children's diverse, confusing and sometimes distressing behaviour.
- Thrive's relational stance enables adults to help children and young people to learn to trust, building their resilience and capacity to regulate their emotions.
- Building trusting relationships offers adults supporting children and young people the very positive reality of making a difference to young people's futures.