Guest Speaker: From Surviving to Thriving - Building Attendance, Belonging and Engagement for Every Child

Delivered by Sharon Gray NLE OBE, this session reframes attendance through a relational, Thrive-informed lens. It explores how feelings of safety influence a child’s ability to attend and highlights the importance of tracking absence in days, not percentages, to enable earlier identification and support. You’ll gain practical, evidence-based strategies to strengthen relationships, support families, and build inclusive systems where every child can thrive.

 

At a glance

Guest Speaker

Guest speaker

Sharon Gray

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Webinar duration

2 hours

Requirements

Suitable for

Thrive Licensed Practitioners

Delivery method

CPD

Worth 5 CPD points

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Price per place

£78 excl. VAT

  

Course outcomes

By the end of this 2-hour session, you will be able to:

  • Understand attendance, EBSA, and rising persistent absence, and explain the value of a relational, support-first approach.
  • Distinguish between anxiety and overwhelm, recognising the role of neuroscience, stress, and co-regulation.
  • Use the Five Domains of Safety and a tiered model to assess needs and focus support where it has most impact.
  • Track absence in days, not percentages, using clear triggers for early action across the school system.
  • Apply practical strategies to support families, improve attendance for all, and identify clear next steps.

    Who is it for?

    This session is suitable for Thrive Licensed Practitioners who support attendance and EBSA

     

     

    Introducing guest speaker: Sharon Gray NLE OBE

    Sharon Gray NLE OBE is an Education Consultant at Wholehearted Learning, with more than three decades of leadership across mainstream, special and SEMH provision. A former National Leader of Education, Pride of Britain Teacher of the Year (2013) and Queen's Honours OBE recipient (2015), Sharon led Netherfield Primary to outstanding from serious weaknesses, served on the Youth Justice Board (2018–2024), and is a Thrive Trainer and co-author of Courageous Journeys in Education. She is an internationally regarded keynote speaker on inclusion, attendance and trauma-informed practice, and advises schools, trusts, local authorities and the DfE.

    Sharon Gray

      

    What you'll learn

    Persistent absence in our schools has nearly doubled since the pandemic. Behind every percentage point sits a child whose nervous system is telling them that school does not feel safe enough to attend.

    This Thrive-informed webinar equips Licensed Practitioners with a relational, evidence-based response to attendance and EBSA, reconnecting the neuroscience of stress, the polyvagal lens, Five Domains of Safety with the Thrive Approach. We will map roles and responsibilities across the whole system and draw on Lebowitz's SPACE programme to support parents whose loving accommodations have, over time, helped maintain their child's anxiety.

    This session focuses on immediate application. Through experiential activities, the “Meet Mia” case study, national data, recent EEF research, and a PATH-style commitment close, participants leave with clear first steps.

    This is a session about systems, yes - but more than that, it is a session about the relationships that sit underneath every system. Children do not thrive because we have the right systems. They thrive because they have the right relationships.

    The aims and objectives of the session include:

    • Equipping Thrive Licensed Practitioners to improve whole-school attendance.
    • Supporting compassionate and effective responses to emotionally based school avoidance.
    • Drawing on Thrive theory to inform practice.
    • Aligning with the statutory DfE framework and current research.
    • Reflecting insights from Sharon Gray’s extensive experience in inclusive, trauma-informed education.

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